Astrologers: which has a bigger influence in this birth chart?

I've found a few contradictions in my birthchart and I wanted to know which planets or houses are more dominate. Her cancer sun says that she is protective of those that she cares about but her house IV in scorpio says that she is jealous, snobby and irascible within the area of home, family and roots and her XII in cancer says that problems will only come in her family! And her moon in VII says that Marriage is very important to her and she can not stand being alone while her IV house in aquarius says she will have a slightly hasty marriage and that both spouses will be very friendly and full of understanding, but if one refuses to give the other freedom of action and independence while insisting on it for himself then a divorce will ensue. And her saturn in VII says that she takes one-to-one relationships so seriously that she may never marry or marry late. This is my whole birthchart: cancer sun, leo rising, sun XI 1 tile sun-mars, 104 Trine sun - Saturn, -83 opposition sun-Ur, 197 oposition sun Neptune, 54 Trine sun-Pluto, Moon in pisces, Moon in VII, 96 Trine moon-Mercury, 12 Trine Moon-Venus, -180 square moon Jupiter, -55 opposition moon ascendant, Cancer Mercury, Mercury in XI, Virgo Mars in II, -157 opposition Mars Saturn, 66 Trine Mars Ur, 56 Trine Mars-Neptune, 137 tile Mars Pluto, 53 Trine Mars-Midheaven, Jupiter in Sagittarius, Jupiter in IV, 106 conjunction Jupiter-Pluto, -8 Jupiter-Midheaven, Saturn in pisces, Satuen in VII, 106 tile-Neptune, 44 Trine Saturn-Pluto, 24 tile saturn-Midheaven, Ur in capricorn, Ur in V, 110 conjunction Ur-Neptune, 98 tile ur - Midheaven, Neptune in capricorn, Neptune in V, 5 tile Neptune-pluto, 12 Trine Neptune-Midheaven, Pluto in scorpio. -13 square pluto-ascendant. -28 opposition pluto-Midheaven, Cancer ascendant is leo. House II in virgo, house III in Libra. House IV in scorpio. House V in sagittarius. House VI in capricorn. House VII in aquarius. House VIII in pisces. House IX in Aries. House X in Taurus. House XI in Gemini. House XII in Cancer.